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elisha1 71 M
2  questions
Love at first sight. - 6/19/2008

Do any of you believe in love at first sight, or is that always truly LUST at first sight. Is there a difference? If so, how can a person ever truly know the difference? Has anyone on here ever seen a piicture on American Sex Dates and known that she or he was the one?

16 response(s), 16 votes
fionaneedsshrek 53 F
1  question
boyfriend likes women's clothes... - 6/19/2008

My boyfriend likes to wear women's panties, socks, bras, etc..I noticed last night he has his toe nails painted.Does anyone have any information on why he likes to do these things? Or know of anywhere on the net that I can find info on this?

11 response(s), 8 votes
ilikebreasts508 40 M
4  questions
Do you like music playing nearby or in the background when you're having sex/being intimate? - 6/19/2008

Or does it irritate you - that racquet playing?

22 response(s), 20 votes
ilikebreasts508 40 M
4  questions
Do you have any unfulfilled fantasies? - 6/19/2008

Do you have any unfulfilled fantasies?

17 response(s), 17 votes
rm_soulja_pimp 28 M
1  question
Overal thought - 6/19/2008

What is everyones overall thought or opinion of this site and others like it?

13 response(s), 10 votes
Isabellaseeking 62 F
32  questions
What did I misunderstand?? - 6/19/2008

Can someone please tell me if I am slow or what. This guy has been sending me messages for weeks and weeks. Nothing OTT just hi think you sexy , miss you , have a great day etc. After his first mail I said thank but I don't do meets but they kept coming and I just ignored them I felt I had made my point.

Then today I got another one. So I sent back a smile saying "what on earth is it ...

8 response(s), 10 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
HTML Tips - THE BEST ON American Sex Dates! - 6/19/2008

IF ANYONE NEEDS HELP WITH HTML? GoddessOfTheDawn has made it clear and simple!

[bg width=100% bgcolor=8000FF border=3 bgcolor=0101DF][bg width=100% bgcolor=BE81F7 border=3 bgcolor=F3F781][bg width=100% bgcolor=888888 border=3 bordercolor=AAAAAA][bg width=100% bgcolor=F6CEF5 border=3 bordercolor=#F4FA58 cellpadding=30]For some great HTML tips, please...

4 response(s), 7 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
American Sex Dates Trophy Case - Did You Check Yours? - 6/19/2008

We have a trophy case here on American Sex Dates! I just saw that today! It's at the end of your personal stats. You hover over it with your mouse to see what you have for trophies!

Have you checked yours?

10 response(s), 14 votes
rm_hulkboy89 27 M
4  questions
trophies? - 6/19/2008

First of all is this trophy thing new? And secondly, isn't rewarding someone for writing eight crappy articles a bit dumb, i mean all that will happen is a lot of spam. And in looking at this trophy thing i have essentially just written a spam article. Its beginning already!

4 response(s), 7 votes
rm_buddaluv67 49 M
8  questions
The one that got away - 6/19/2008

Did you ever have a lover that you regret losing/breaking up with? What do you miss?

One woman I dated years ago..she could touch me and give me goosepimples. And her mind. She could think and talk and nothing else in the world mattered.

OK, maybe I just miss being 22.

15 response(s), 14 votes
rm_bi62901 37 F
1  question
do you like the taste? - 6/18/2008

How many straight women like the taste of their own pussy?

12 response(s), 16 votes
rm_kanda7275 49 C
10  questions
so women? - 6/18/2008

wife wants to try a 3 some but , is leary bout it for now , what are some alternatives to get started with ? ( with another man?)

6 response(s), 11 votes
mutual2007 65 M
15  questions
your feelings on working girls - 6/18/2008

this ones just an observation that I've noticed on here. Anytime someone, myself included mentions utilizing the services of a (, ho, escort; insert your own euphemism) people get all up in arms and come down like they are they scum of the earth. They are just people, at least the ones I've met, who do what they do for their own reasons. Some of the girls I've talked to were more learned, and ...

20 response(s), 26 votes
PulchyJo 35 F
51  questions
drugged related orgasms,,,, - 6/18/2008

Hi fellow American Sex Dates posters. I have really missed reading all the interesting questions and comments of late. Was out of it for awhile due to a surgery i had to have. Which leads to my question/comment. As you will note, i am an older woman, , have gotten a whole lot crazy in my life, but one thing i had never really gotten into was the use of drugs. Please understand, i am not condemning anyone for ...

4 response(s), 15 votes
6Olderlover9 62 M
3  questions
looking for orgyor fmf - 6/18/2008

I am new to the vegas area would like to know how or who to contact to get involved in a all out orgy or just a good fmf. I have never been involved in either would like to try it so if you can help thank you.

6 response(s), 13 votes
rm_kanda7275 49 C
10  questions
men that want to watch their wife get fucked - 6/18/2008

the question is , what is it that turns you on about watching your wife/gf get fucked by another man?

8 response(s), 19 votes
mutual2007 65 M
15  questions
another glitch? - 6/18/2008

Ok, anybody else getting the message that their profile's not filled out? geez, takes up a bunch of space on my home page. Most of my shit's filled in, it even says i still have to fill in my hometown, among other things. good money gone bad I'm beginning to think

18 response(s), 20 votes
rm_kanda7275 49 C
10  questions
couples that have done 3somes. - 6/18/2008

for everyone but especially men. what is it that turns you on about your wife/gf getting fucked by another man? just wondering for curiosities sake

4 response(s), 11 votes
rm_OprahSesame 37 M
15  questions
Ghost Sex - 6/18/2008

If a man gets sodomises by the ghost of Popo Bawa while he is at home in his own bed while sleeping does this men he gay?

Why if they the victims do not reveal what has happened then Popo Bawa will strike the next night?

18 response(s), 21 votes
rm_lucidmez 49 M
3  questions
Am I seeking advice? Am I venting? I'm not sure myself. - 6/18/2008

Okay, so here is the situation. I'm single, I work in a small office with folks that are all married. So, hooking up at work is not an option. My social life is less than stellar these days; all of my best friends have recently moved out of town. I'm not a bar fly but I do get out and try to meet people through various extracirricular activities, yet, I'm not having a lot of luck there. I ...

15 response(s), 14 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Very Emotional For Me - A CoWorker Bully? - 6/18/2008

Have you ever worked some place where you had either a bully co-worker or a bully boss?

This is a very emotional time in my life; and, I have never been terminated from a job. What's even more devastating is after working diligently and actually being an excellent and dependable employee for 10 years, a jealous vindictive co-worker decides she's gonna rake me through the coals, any ...

25 response(s), 20 votes
iceman619501 36 M
2  questions
Nude Beach - 6/18/2008

I have tried this year to have a party at a nude beach, but not a lot of people showed interest and I'm going to try again next year in 2009. Will be a good idea period to have a party at a nude beach? If not, why will it be a bad idea. If I should have a nude beach party, how many people should I invite.

17 response(s), 29 votes
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
81  questions
Shrinking Sized Proportions - Same Darn Price! - 6/18/2008

I went to buy ice cream at the local supermarket the other day only to find that the cartons are getting smaller, but the prices are the same.

The previous 1/2 gallon sizes are now 1.5 quarts, but we're paying the same price. We've actually lost .5 quarts.

Have you noticed any changes in any products you've bought where the sizes seem to be shrinking, but the price is ...

14 response(s), 18 votes
monkeypuzzle2000 53 M
1  question
Have you ever - 6/18/2008

Have any guys out there put something up their arse to increase the orgasm effect? try it sometimes - it is mind-blowing - what do you think?

15 response(s), 28 votes
Montu905 59 M
1  question
THE 6 ANSWERS WE HAVE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR? - 6/18/2008

Q: WHAT ARE THE SMALL BUMPS AROUND WOMEN'S NIPPLES FOR? A: It's Braille for 'suck here.'

Q: WHAT IS AN AUSTRALIAN KISS? A: Exactly the same as a French kiss, but 'down under.'

Q: WHAT DO YOU DO WITH 365 USED CONDOMS? A: Melt them down, make a tire, and call it a Goodyear.

Q: WHY WERE HURRICANES NORMALLY NAMED AFTER WOMEN? A: Because when they come, they're wild and wet. ...

14 response(s), 36 votes
vegasangel0125 41 C
10  questions
Anal sex - 6/18/2008

I'm not sure if this question has been asked before. But I have found that this is the best place to get questions answered. Should condoms be used at all times for anal sex?

22 response(s), 39 votes
Isabellaseeking 62 F
32  questions
Multiple orgasms or one delayed big one? - 6/18/2008

I have found my man likes to be brought to the edge of orgasm then be allowed to get controll then brought to the edge again and again until his climax. He presumes I like the same thing but as a woman I find it terribly frustrating and actually lose the desire if its done. I wasn't given the gift of multiple orgasm for no reasaon prefer to cum as soon as I get there and do it again and again ...

10 response(s), 19 votes
looking92008 61 M
3  questions
Should I? - 6/18/2008

I have a long time best friend (20+yrs), she is currently still married, but not living with her husband, they are getting a divorce. I am currently seeing another women, and have been for a few years. No wedding plnas or anything like that.

My problem is that I have strong sexual desires for my friend of twenty yrs. We us e to do many things together and stil live in the same town and ...

13 response(s), 10 votes
ManLovePussy88 42 M
9  questions
New Italian Menu : French Fried Chicken - 6/17/2008

THat's right , last night the Italians beat out "pathetic" French 2-0. A few days earlier the same French Team also was " Beaten Up into A PulP" with the score of 4-1 by "the Flying" Dutch Men.

Oh sorry, did u watch Euro 2008 soccer match ?.

Just curious how many of you watch the event. If U do, what's your favorite team ?.

14 response(s), 27 votes
rm_davidw322 38 M
1  question
Would you fuck an older woman? - 6/17/2008

Hey guys and gals! If you had the chance to be with an older woman and fuck her, would you do it?

26 response(s), 53 votes